How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 04:26

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.